"We, the parents, families and friends of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender persons, celebrate diversity and envision a society that embraces everyone, including those of diverse sexual orientations and gender identities. Only with respect, dignity and equality for all will we reach our full potential as human beings, individually and collectively. PFLAG welcomes the participation and support of all who share in, and hope to realize this vision."
— PFLAG National (http://community.pflag.org/)
A Brief History of PFLAG Cleveland
By Jane Daroff, Co-Founder, PFLAG Cleveland
    PFLAG Cleveland held its first meeting in July, 1985. Trinity Cathedral agreed to host us monthly at no charge. Our first meeting included PFLAG Akron who came to provide support. The number of attendees vacillated from 8-20 for the first several years. At some point in its history, the group seemed to take on a life of its own and I no longer worried whether we would have an ample number of attendees.
The Way We Offer Support
      Our group meetings now range from 25-45 people. We arrange ourselves in a circle and each person introduces him/herself/themselves. New participants are given additional time in a second go-around. We continue this format today. We experimented both with having speakers and dividing into two groups but the original format has been favored and we have maintained that structure.
Our Volunteer Executive and Advisory Boards
      Jane Daroff and Jes Sellers (pictured at right) founded the group and remained its sole leaders until PFLAG National encouraged shared leadership through an advisory board. At this point, Robin Richmond was elected President while Jane and Jes continued as meeting facilitators. Later, Sharon Groh-Wargo became PFLAG Cleveland's President, a position she held for 10 years before stepping into the Vice President role in 2018. Tom Falcone is the current President, and is assisted by other officers of an Executive Board, as well as at-large members of an Advisory Board, that meets monthly. We have offered our home phones as a hot line resource for our members.
Our Meeting Location
      Trinity Cathedral was chosen initially by Rob Daroff because it was the only church out of 15 that provided us rent-free space. The only expenses we had initially were those that connect with our PFLAG National membership. While expenses have increased over the years (we now rent our meeting space and pay for our parking for our attendees), we remain grateful for our long-standing relationship with Trinity. Several group members have attended since the beginning including Bob Woodward (d. 2013), Bob Asch (d 2016), Jes Sellers, and Jane Daroff.
What Makes Us Special
      We consider ourselves an educational and emotional support group for parents, families, and friends of LGBT folks, as well as for LGBT people and their Allies. It has been this diverse mix which has helped to make us unique and valuable in the community.

The PFLAG Cleveland Advisory Board
The Advisory Board is the driving force behind PFLAG Cleveland's efforts at not only support, but also education and advocacy in the greater Cleveland community. The board consists of both elected (executive board) and non-elected board members. Please learn more about our board members below. 

Tom Falcone, President, PFLAG Cleveland

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Tom Falcone
I  am a gay man. I was married for 26 years to the mother of my three sons. I came out in October of 1996. I started attending PFLAG with my ex-wife the following spring. I eventually met my now-husband, Mike. We were married in November, 2015. Now we are all one big happy family.

Sharon Groh-Wargo, Vice President, PFLAG Cleveland

Sharon Groh-Wargo, Ph.D., has been an active member of PFLAG Cleveland for many years and president since 2005. Sharon sought out PFLAG to meet other parents of gay children when her daughter came out at the end of her freshman year in college. What she found was a warm and welcoming group of dedicated volunteers living the PFLAG mission of support, education and advocacy. Her energy is sustained by witnessing the remarkable personal growth of the many individuals and families she is privileged to meet through PFLAG.
      Sharon is a full Professor of Nutrition and Pediatrics at Case Western Reserve University School of Medicine and the neonatal nutritionist for MetroHealth Medical Center. She is a founding member of MetroHealth’s Gay Straight Alliance. Sharon is a member of Equality Ohio and participates in their state leadership meetings and annual lobby days in Columbus. Sharon and her husband Frank have been married for 39 years and have two adult children. Lauren and her wife Mae reside in Columbus. Danny, a recent college graduate, is currently teaching English in Thailand and heading to graduate school soon. Sharon and Frank are Federal Club members of the Human Rights Campaign.

Tonya Young, Board Member At Large

Tonya Young is a native of Virginia. She has a Bachelors of Science in Accounting and a Masters of Business Administration, and eight years of Project Management experience.
Tonya's life passion is servicing others as well as her community.  Having been blessed with influential mentors who've helped her on her path to success, Tonya believes she has the responsibility to give back to the community that has given so much to her.   She has utilized her gifts in various ways including serving as the current Vice President of PFLAG-Cleveland, a board member for Big Brothers Big Sisters, a 4th grade reading and math tutor, and a volunteer for a local food bank and various homeless shelters.
Tonya is currently pursuing a certification in grief recovery.  She is committed to helping African American families heal from unseen wounds and strengthen relationships through conversations, support and love.  Her most cherished memory is the first time she saw her now husband and falling in love with her best friend.
Tonya can be reached at: tsmoov1913@yahoo.com.

Marianne Buccini, Membership Committee Chair
Marianne M. Buccini, MSW, LISW-S, is a counselor/associate professor at Cuyahoga Community College. She is actively involved in Safe Zone Ally Training at Tri C, a program that educates students, faculty, staff and administrators about LGBTQ people and prepares them to provide a safe haven for LGBTQ students and employees.
As an advisory board member for PFLAG Cleveland, she has worked on updating the PFLAG Cleveland brochure and website. She represented PFLAG at the AIDS Walk, Cleveland Pride Parade and Festival and several panels at local churches and educational institutions. Marianne served on the subcommittee for the Great Lakes PFLAG Regional Conference, held in Cleveland, September, 2013. She currently serves as chairperson of the Membership Committee. 
Marianne also serves as a Board Associate for Fortunate Families, a Catholic organization of parents seeking justice for our LGBTQ children within the Catholic Church.
"Through my volunteer service for PFLAG Cleveland, I have met wonderful people all working for equality for LGBTQ people. I look forward to continued service." M
arianne can be reached at marianne.buccini@gmail.com

Art Thomson, Treasurer, PFLAG Cleveland
Art Thomson is Treasurer for PFLAG-Cleveland. Art is an administrator at Cleveland Clinic. He received his undergraduate degree from Ohio Wesleyan University and an MA from Ohio State University. Art originally turned to PFLAG-Cleveland in 1995 at a time when he was coming out and separating from a marriage. Art is also a longtime Human Rights Campaign Federal Club member.
    Art's partner is Jes and together they have three wonderful adult children and two granddaughters. His email address is thomson.art@gmail.com

Alan Cohen, Board Member At Large
We belong to Kendal at Home which is a program that allows seniors to remain in their homes with services as needed to facilitate safe, comfortable living. It works. The burden is off one's family, and one is assured that needs are covered at no additional cost. This is the reward for Margot's 38 years of teaching French and gazillion years of doing theatre (acting and directing); and Alan's 38 years of editing, selling and theatre (box office and house managing). It also covers a relationship that began in jr. hi and now boasts 4 adult offspring. It recalls many foreign trips including a first year of marriage spent in paris. #1 daughter started us at PFLAG about 15 years ago and we have been happily active members ever since, and look forward to many more years of volunteering.

Jane Daroff, PFLAG Cleveland Co-Founder, Board Member At Large
Co-founded PFLAG Cleveland with Jes in July 1985. Continued to co-facilitate to the present. Work with Jes in Univ. Counseling Service as Clinical Social Worker. On National Board of Directors of Human Rights Campaign (HRC). On Alumni Board of Case Western Reserve University (CWRU); Alumni Board of Mandel School of Applied Social Sciences (MSASS); co- chair Deans Advisory Comm MSASS; co-chair of Univ. Provost's LGBT Faculty and Staff Committee; ex-officio member of board of CWRU LGBT Center. Married to Bob. 3 sons and 6 grandchildren. Email: j.daroff@aol.com

Craig Hoffman, Board Member At Large
Craig grew up in a blue collar family in rural Pennsylvania, the 4th of 5 children. He received a Bachelors of Science degree in biology from Juniata College and a Masters of Divinity degree from Andover Newton Theological School. After his home congregation in Pennsylvania withdrew their support of his ordination process when he came out as a gay man while in seminary, Craig joined an Open and Affirming congregation in Boston, Church of the Covenant, which eagerly sponsored him for ordination. In 1993 he was ordained to a ministry of pastoral care with persons living with HIV/AIDS at a drug rehab facility in the South Bronx, HELP Project Samaritan, and subsequently a similar ministry continued at the Bailey-Holt House in Greenwich Village in Manhattan. After several years providing pastoral care, he moved into administrative ministry, serving as a church business administrator at a church on the upper west side of Manhattan. While working at the church, he entered into a Non-profit Management degree program at New York University. 
Shortly after receiving this master’s degree in 2000, he and his then partner - now husband, Rev. Allen Harris, moved to Cleveland. Craig worked for the National offices of the United Church of Christ and later the LGBT Community Center of Greater Cleveland. He currently works at Old Stone Church on Public Square, where he serves as the Executive Administrative Assistant to the Senior Pastor.
He and Allen reside in an 1890’s home they rehabbed on the Near West side of Cleveland using green materials and building techniques and concepts. They celebrated their relationship in a Holy Union ceremony at Church of the Covenant in Boston, MA in June 1990 and have registered as Domestic Partners in three cities; New York City in 1990, Cleveland Heights in 2003 and Cleveland in 2009. They were legally married in Maryland in 2013.  Craig is an avid environmentalist and social justice advocate.  In addition, he serves on the advisory board of the Cleveland chapter of PFLAG (Parents Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays). His interests include architecture and historic preservation, genealogy, the study of systems and politics – both church and secular.

Quentin Jamieson, Secretary, PFLAG Cleveland
Quentin first encountered PFLAG Cleveland in October 2008 after the insistence of founding member Jane Daroff, MSW LISW. Quentin has served on the Advisory Board ever since when at his first meeting President Sharon Groh-Wargo asked if he knew anything about websites...the rest is history! Quentin is the chapter's primary technical contact, managing its many digital assets (various iterations of the website, chapter-specific print media, and logos). Quentin's primary goal as a board member was to increase PFLAG Cleveland's membership through the impact of its digital, web, and print media. Since deployment of the redesigned PFLAG Cleveland website in 2009, PFLAG Cleveland has seen an 80% increase in membership.
    In March 2015, Quentin was elected Secretary of PFLAG Cleveland and supports the chapter through maintenance of its meeting records, minutes, and correspondence with the chapter's membership. He was re-elected in 2017.
     Quentin was born and raised in Amherst, OH. He earned his B.S. in Astrophysics at New Mexico Tech (2005) &  Ph.D. in Cellular & Molecular Biophysics at Case Western Reserve University (2014). While a graduate student, Quentin served 7 years in the CWRU Graduate Student Senate including 2 terms as President of the Graduate Student Senate as its first openly-gay President. His re-election was fueled following successful leadership of several important graduate student initiatives, including a phased-in subsidy of doctoral student health care premiums.
    Currently, Quentin is a caregiver at the Cleveland Clinic, working as a Continuous Improvement Specialist. Quentin's chief interests remain in problem solving, the scientific method, analytics, team facilitation, and servant leadership. He is also an avid outdoorsman, photographer, and chef. Quentin can be reached at quentin@pflagcleveland.org

Jes Sellers, PFLAG Cleveland Co-Founder, Board Member At Large
Jes Sellers, Ph.D., is a co-facilitator of the PFLAG-Cleveland Monthly support group. Dr. Jes Sellers is a licensed psychologist, director of the Case Western Reserve University Counseling Services and co-chair of the University Provost's LGBT Faculty & Staff Committee. He has degrees from Penn State University and the University of Florida. When Rob Daroff asked his mother, Jane Daroff to start a Cleveland chapter of PFLAG in 1985, Jane turned to Jes to join her in the effort and from that moment on, PFLAG became a compelling cause to which he and Jane have dedicated considerable time and energies. Jes formerly served as PFLAG Cleveland Vice President and is also a longtime Human Rights Campaign Federal Club member.
      Jes is married to Art and together they have three adult children and  two granddaughters, Neal & his wife Darcey of Washington, DC, Robin of New York City and Jesse of Allentown, PA. His email address is sellers.jes@gmail.com

Thomas R. Roese, Legislative Coordinator
Tom Roese began coming regularly to PFLAG meetings in 2008. The initial reason for attending meetings was to seek a way to work with some family who were having issues with his and his partner’s sexual orientation. What we found was a group of dedicated, caring, and supportive members who have helped us tremendously to gain strength and acceptance of our sexuality and how it fits with our family. In addition, it’s helped Tom find his politically active voice.
      Tom is a professional artist, who does graphite urban landscapes; Dolan/Maxwell Gallery in Philadelphia represents his work. Tom taught art in a public high school for 29 years, and drawing at the Cleveland Institute of Art for 32 years. Tom is a graduate of the Cleveland Institute of Art (BFA) and the University of Northern Colorado (MA). Tom and his partner have been together since 1996. His website is: http://www.thomasrroese.com and his email address is: info@thomasrroese.com.

Ruth Fonoroff, Board Member At Large
In younger years, my husband Allen (died 1998) and I watched the rejections and problems endured by gay friends: One school dropout abused drugs, another just wandered, and a college friend killed himself at age 29.
    So we had some insight when son Paul who had just graduated from college told us he was gay. That was the 70s when there was heavy prejudice against people who were “different,” and few honest facts were passed around.
    What had we learned? That accepting Paul’s sexuality was essential in helping him accept himself and find a place in life.
    Today, thank goodness, PFLAG meetings offer in a loving, helpful way a plethora of ideas and solutions. You may hear a teenager afraid to tell his mother he is gay—That might end a treasured relationship. Or there may be parents confused about how to treat a lesbian daughter. I leave those meetings amazed, thankful and at peace.
    Oh yes, what happened to Paul? Now at age 56 he is a longtime film critic with a longtime partner, a close friend of his older sister and younger brother.
    Ruth graduated from the University of North Carolina, and earned an M.A. from Case Western Reserve University.
    For 11 years, Ruth was a reading and English teacher for the Cleveland Board of Education.
    For almost 20 years she was an education writer: Her column “Report Card,” appeared in several newspapers including the Cleveland Press. For seven years she wrote and sold the newsletter “Effective Classrooms” to U.S. and Canadian educators

Brian Javor, Board Member At Large
Brian Javor has been a member of PFLAG since 2009, first attending a meeting at the suggestion of his mom following his reluctant coming-out in 2008. He has discovered an enclave of tremendous support and hope in PFLAG. Brian graduated from North Olmsted High School in 2008, 12th in his class and a Silver Eagle athlete-scholar, and from Baldwin Wallace University in 2012, B.A. in Sustainability. As a Youth Board Member, he endeavors to further competencies in leadership and media/technology. He regards this appointment as an opportunity to gain strength and confidence as a person; the future looks promising.

Logan Sherman, Board Member At Large
Logan Sherman became involved in PFLAG during high school when Logan's parents needed help coming out of their own "closet" about their gay child. As a PFLAG board member, Logan offered their perspective and helped to bring the PFLAG Booth back to Cleveland PRIDE. The summer before Logan left for college, they found support in PFLAG yet again as they came out as transgender. Although Logan does not currently live in Cleveland, they continue to stay connected to the PFLAG organization which has made such a difference for them. 
Logan is currently studying Women's, Gender and Sexuality Studies at The Ohio State University. They are involved in trans-related activism as well as activism around LGB identities and advocacy for victims/survivors of sexual violence . Logan plans on pursuing a Masters of Social Work and continuing to advocate for LGBTQ folks and social justice in the future. 

Denise Webb, Board Member

Denise Webb, Social Outings Coordinator & Social Media Administrator, is a mother of 2 daughters (1 straight and 1 a lesbian.) Though Denise's reaction to her daughter's “Coming Out” in 2014 was not a good one... she has grown and developed to be a fierce Mama Bear 
for her daughters and the LGBTQ community as a whole. As a family, their journey involves growth, discovery, change and openness. Denise and her husband also lead a ministry at their Open & Affirming Church (Dover UCC.) The ministry is to encourage the LGBTQ Community, their family, friends and allies. The Ministry is called “I AM”: Inclusion Affirmation Ministry. Denise can be reached at webbsong4@cox.net

Quentin Jamieson,
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